Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Vermont

Vermont Adult Personals




I have met many men on the internet whose entire social world consists of doing things with their children from a past marriage. You may be telling yourself, once he dates me he'll spend time with me and his kids will take a back seat. 


The answer is no. If a man constantly talks to you about his kids and when you ask him what he did that week you realize that his social life consisted of taking his children shopping, you are always going to compete with his children for his love. A man with a healthy relationship with their kids also has friends he spends time with and does things with. Some men will give you a feeling in your gut that their daughter has become a substitute companion replacing their wife (in an emotional, not sexual way). 

Red Flag #8: His Attitude about Himself and his Life in General


There are happy men who love life, and then there are men who are angry, unhappy and miserable about their life. When you talk to a guy, you will know in your gut which kind he is. Men who are happy with life and themselves never complain about their "bad luck" and "misfortunes". They find humor in things and they have an optimistic point of view. They don't make sarcastic comments about life or people, such as, "My daughter came over the other day and took hold of my wallet again". 


Guys who like life, like themselves and will be able to like you and make life a happy experience for you are guys who don't seem to have a black cloud of bad luck that's always following them in life. When a guy has that cloud of bad luck, it's because he mentally brings it into his reality. You will know in your gut if you are talking to a happy guy who sees life with the glass half full or a guy who sees life with the glass always half empty. 


You will know when a guy carries that black cloud because there is impending doom in every aspect of his life: his job is on the line, he lost money, his friend swindled him, his car just broke down, he just had another fight with his brother, he just got another speeding ticket, etc.