Wednesday, August 7, 2019

Utah

Utah Adult Personals




A lot of men hide their addictions to drugs and alcohol very well, especially on the phone. Of course you'll know he's had alcohol addiction when he can't order a drink on the first date. But why wait till then to find that out he's been an addict and you don't want to date him? 



Some men even hide alcohol addiction well after dating you for several months until they get you emotionally dependent on them. Then suddenly they've had too much to drink in front of you and gone into an alcoholic rage. Wouldn't it be great if you could weed out those guys that have alcohol and drug addiction before you even meet him? The good news is: yes you can.


The one thing about men with addictions is that: they all have "addictive personalities". How do you know if the guy has an addictive personality? 


If he does he will often have a serious obsession with doing some kind of hobby, or be obsessed about fantasizing about a goal in his life that he does things to plan for (like reading real estate for hours on end because one day he wants to buy a house down the shore). The point is, he takes a hobby or interest and brings it to the level of an obsession. So listen to the things he used to enjoy doing or is now doing with his life. How much did it or does it control his world? Ask him all about his hobbies. 


If he seems obsessively into something that he can't seem to stop talking about doing, (and he will expect you to change your life to conform to the demands that his obsessive hobby makes on him), he usually has an addictive personality and possibly even more serious addictions, such as a sex addiction, work addiction, or alcohol/drug addiction. 

Guys like this will one day be obsessed with body building and the next day they will have a business project they obsessively spend time on and then that will disappear and they will become addicted to making miniature planes. Guys with addictive personalities do not hide their obsession from you. They talk about them constantly and fondly recollect past ones.