Wednesday, August 7, 2019

South Dakota

South Dakota adult personals




You'll know how much you are compatible by how he spends his days. You'll know how much you will have to change your life to be compatible with his by what his hobbies are. Ask him what he likes to do and what his hobbies are. 


You will get the feeling that your lives can mesh beautifully just as they now are, or you will get the feeling that you would have to lower your standards, change your goals, live somewhere you don't want to live, be with kids you don't want to be with; accept things you truly morally can't accept; or never get along on certain subjects by what he tells you about how he lives his life. Ask him his goals in life. 


You might be surprised to learn he plans to move out of state in 2 years. There are so many ways a guy can look good on paper, but if you have that feeling in your gut that you would have to change an important part of you to be compatible with him, then 




Another major thing to get a good gut feeling about is his attitude about  money. Many men have emotional anger issues related to money. 


They feel they don't earn enough to feel self worth; they feel like failures because they didn't succeed in the profession their father picked for them (and their father has reminded them about this ever since); they feel their ex financially stripped them of financial stability (she got the house lament); they pay child support and feel stripped financially by their ex wife and kids. 

Most men are open books about their negative attitude about their finances. They will complain about their hardships or make sarcastic jokes about it. Their anger issues with money are