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The biggest dating mistake made by many Christians is that they are not going on Christian dates at all. This doesn't mean that you are not going to Christian places or doing Christian activities, or even that you're not dating other Christians. It means that you are making the mistake of thinking that simply being a Christian and having a date equals Christian dating. 


This is not so. The date itself must be within the framework of Christian ethical standards - how Christians treat other people. Your date should not be with you simply because they are nice to look at, or nice to be seen with. Nor should your date be simply company on an otherwise lonely night.


Many Christians make the mistake of asking someone out on a romantic date when all they really want is someone to go out with as a friend. This leads to obvious complications when you have one person viewing the other as a potential friend, whilst being viewed by them as a potential husband or wife. 


Christians make this mistake all the time due to the lack of sexual pressure in Christian dating. Knowing that sex is out of the question and with strict personal rules on kissing and other acts of intimacy, it is easy to find yourself in 'friend mode' rather than viewing your date as a potential spouse. Now of course a husband and wife are friends, I am in no way suggesting otherwise, but theirs is a special kind of friendship built on a foundation of romantic love.